Effective Listening

Published: 19th November 2010
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"There are people who, instead of listening to what is being said to them, are already listening to what they are going to say themselves." Albert Guinon

"Listening well is as powerful a means of communication and influence as to talk well." John Marshall

"The greatest motivational act one person can do for another is to listen." Roy E. Moody

"We have two ears and one mouth so that we can listen twice as much as we speak." Epictetus

"Courage is what it takes to stand up and speak; courage is also what it takes to sit down and listen." Winston Churchill

"The most important thing in communication is to hear what isn't being said." Peter F. Drucker

You might wonder why there are so many quotes posted here today. The reason for that is because listening is one of the most important things anybody needs to master in order to have any kind of success in life or in their businesses.

If you want people to like you and become your client then you need to understand what they are saying and then paraphrase what they said with empathy and understanding of their needs. When you listen you have to put their thoughts together not only by listening to the communicator's words but also by their tone and their perception in order to totally relate to them.


If you want to be successful in anything including you multi-level marketing business it is important that you listen actively and correctly. If you listen effectively then you will be able to relate your business to peoples' needs better and you can also develop a greater trust when you speak in a tone that will out them at ease with the position in that you can determine by effectively listening.

Paraphrasing is also very important because it can address peoples' concerns quickly and effectively. When you paraphrase you sum up what they said and then take what you said and directly come up with a resolution for it which will be a way to bring your business into their lives to help them better themselves for example.

It is important to choose the best words and phrases that will get peoples' attention and show you have the most concern possible for them when you are learning about them and how they want to become leaders and how you can fit your business into their distinct lives the right way by listening to them carefully and using a tone that will send them the information efficiently in a way that will grab their attention by offering the solution that will make the most positive and direct impact in their lives based on the words, situation and tones they used or are in.


Paraphrasing is also important because it shows how you understood every word that they use to describe themselves and their lives. People who do not use effective listening cannot read people right and ignore small words that are very important in the way the communicator describes themselves. This can lead to misrepresentation and misunderstanding that will drive people away from you simply because you did not understand them completely.

This is why effective listening is essential to success in any situation and why it is important to value the words and expressions of others if you want to be successful because the world is a big place and the people who understand and deal the best with other people are the ones who win the business and the success. The best communicator and listener is the one who makes the best decisions for people and who is the best leader because of their listening.

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